'That knowledge could save lives': Shefford and Stotfold MP campaigns for Sex Ed to be compulsory until 18

Shefford and Stotfold’s MP Alistair Strathern is campaigning for "a dangerous gap in education" to be closed.

Mr Strathern joined with campaigners from across the country to urge MPs to back his Private Members Bill to make Relationship and Sex Education (RSE) compulsory until the age of 18.

Students Eni (first name only), Labour MP Alistair Strathern, Harry Terruli and Caitlin (first name only) with 'The Unofficial Curriculum' in Parliament Square Gardens, London. Photo: Matt Alexander/Assignments/the Press Associationplaceholder image
Students Eni (first name only), Labour MP Alistair Strathern, Harry Terruli and Caitlin (first name only) with 'The Unofficial Curriculum' in Parliament Square Gardens, London. Photo: Matt Alexander/Assignments/the Press Association

The group visited Parliament Square, highlighting "the harmful messages young people can encounter" when compulsory RSE ends – including violent pornography, online misinformation, and content that normalises coercive control and abuse.

Mr Strathern, who represents the constituency of Hitchin, said: "Young people aged 16 to 19 experience the highest rates of domestic abuse of any age group, yet under current legislation the need for education settings to provide RSE ends at 16.

"As a result, millions of teenagers who are entering further education are not guaranteed lessons on consent, coercive control, or how to recognise the signs of abuse."

To highlight this education gap and build support for his Bill, Alistair partnered with Make It Mandatory, Killed Women and End Violence Against Women to launch a mock textbook – entitled the ‘Unofficial Curriculum’ – which they unveiled in London.

Mr Strathern added: “Young people deserve better than the worst corners of the internet for advice on sex and relationships.

"Yet just as many young people begin their first serious relationships, compulsory education on these issues comes to an end."

Founder of Make It Mandatory, Faustine Petron, said: “When I was 16, I entered my first romantic relationship, as most teenagers do. I was excited for this new stage of my life, but that excitement soon wore away as the relationship became controlling and, eventually, violent.

“For the first year, I didn't call it abuse because I didn't have the words for it. No teacher had ever given them to me, and at that age it was hard to tell the difference between love and control.

“I started Make It Mandatory because I couldn’t accept that another generation of young people could be left as unprepared as I was. I wanted what happened to me to become a reason for change.”

For Carole Gould, co-founder of Killed Women, the need for change is deeply personal. Her daughter Ellie was just 17 when she was murdered by her ex-boyfriend, and she is backing the Bill to help ensure other young people are better equipped to recognise the warning signs of abuse.

Carole said: “As a mother you just want to protect your child. The coercive control my daughter experienced in her first relationship was so subtle we all failed to recognise the red flags and the danger she was in.

“Ellie was only 17 when she was murdered by her ex-boyfriend for ending the relationship”.

Mr Strathern concluded: “Education isn’t just about exams and careers, it’s about preparing young people for life. This Bill is about giving every young person the tools to recognise danger, seek help and build relationships based on respect.

“That knowledge can change lives – and, in some cases, save them.”

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